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A Granny Says: Protesting is SO good For What Ails Ya!
 
Protest #3 helped this granny smile long and hard. There are so few 
places in our society where people can vent their anger and frustrations 
without getting into some kind of trouble. The Internet is one, and hence 
we see so many new websites daily. PEACEFUL PROTESTING is the other and by 
far the most rewarding type of action to release personal tensions. It is 
rewarding in terms of camaraderie, commonality of purpose, and a release of 
negative tensions and frustrations that tend to bottle up when addressing 
the recent wrongs done to us. As we hold back these tensions they tend to, 
unintentionally spill over onto others who are probably undeserving of such 
anger. 
  A President's Day protest against Mr. Bush in New York City
 
The political arena offers us so many things to be angry about and 
very little in the way of dealing with it. We can write to our 
representatives. We can write to our president (if we had one), and we can 
even write to the Supremicist Court or the various media persons. AND 
writing DOES help! It helps to relieve the tensions that so often build up 
each time we think about the injustices done to the American people during 
the past election process. It helps to express thoughts and opinions we 
often must hold back in order to listen to others express their thoughts 
and opinions. 
BUT writing does not offer the intensity of relief that we once knew 
as children. When we were hurt or angry we just cried out and Mom answered 
our needs. And we felt so much better after crying because, for most of 
us, momma was a great source of comfort. All too soon however, we learned 
ways to hold in our discomfort. We were taught not to express our feelings 
openly and not to cry out when hurt. We learned to be adults and to put 
childish ways behind us. 
So many of us lock up the Child within and become devious, tasteless, 
sad, tense, or outright horrible folks, proceeding to our deathbeds with 
the thought, "What was that all about"? The child within has been locked in 
a closet. The inner Child (spelled with a capital C to distinguish it from 
actual children) is a compilation of primitive thoughts, feelings, and 
actions based foremost on gratification of needs. 
My child was alive and squawking yesterday! I protested Jed Bush and 
Kathryn Harris in Tampa. I shouted in the park and booed so loud I'm sure 
my momma far up in heaven heard me. And Ohhhh, did I ever feel good when I 
left Tampa to go back home. I felt truly drained and accomplished. My 
kid reveled in the fact that Jeb couldn't speak due to all of the loud 
booing for at least 5 minutes. He even addressed us (15-20 protestors) 
with eye contact in order to get us to let him speak. It was Sooo good. I 
wore my T-shirt with the picture of DumbYa wearing a black mask with words 
stating," THIS THIEF STOLE THE ELECTION"...V-e-r-y childish! I held my 
poster high in spite of the few people sent over to cover us in our front 
row with a false banner that was actually a blanket in disguise. As they 
snickered at us I held the poster higher than their banner to tell Jeb, "No 
More BUSHIT"! And best of all----------he got the message. 
We could see that he got the message that Florida will fight back by 
noting his facial expressions and body language. His eyes and body were 
focused on us rather than the rest of the broad field where we all sat and 
stood. He could clearly have looked at the others around the one city 
block square park from his place on the stage, but he didn't. And we 
booed and we booed and we booed, like little kids who won't eat their liver 
sandwiches. And we all got what we came for, that angry expression on the 
rich kid's face when we wouldn't stop booing. 
 
| And when Kathryn came out to meet the hundreds of people there 
(mostly government employees) she didn't go up on the stage, like Jeb, but 
headed straight for where we protestors congregated. We (he he he) flashed 
our signs of disrespect directly in her face as she headed towards us. As 
expected, she couldn't crack her makeup--- that pasted smile, which she 
used to shun all adversity. (I never knew that makeup could express the 
middle finger response before). We'll she may think we didn't get to her, 
but the proof of the pudding is always in Kathryn's smile. If she gave a 
real response her face would crack. The camouflage is her only defense 
against the outrage we Floridians feel about her great discount of our 
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After Jeb spoke it no longer bothered me that the police placed my 
table of Oral Majority buttons and bumper stickers out in the street off of 
the park grounds in order to keep me away from the others. It no longer 
bothered me that they told me not walk on the cement path around the park 
as all the other people did. Instead I recalled the other kinder officers 
who told me to walk in the park. Of course that was after they heard me 
protest loudly while walking in the street that my first amendments rights 
were being taken away from me by the Tampa Police. It no longer bothered 
me that the majority of people there did not speak out, after all they 
worked for Jeb and I was so tickled by the fact that at least 80% of them 
gave ME the high sign for my T-shirt-----but quietly. I protested loudly 
for all of them! 
On the way home all of the tension I previously felt when thinking 
about the Bush family seemed to have drained out of me. I giggled instead! 
All was well within me both physically and mentally. I let my child 
express her self in a safe, police attended event and I really felt good 
about it. Even beyond that, I was rewarded by several new friendships, 
especially my fellow protestor, Jan. 
Oh, I know the tension won't be gone for long, not for any of us who 
protested Jeb's Cabinet Meeting in Tampa this day. The tensions felt by our 
victimization in Florida's election fiasco will come back with each piece 
of news from our Internet friends, and it will continue to pile up within 
our inner child. But for now at least, my circuits are clear and having 
learned new aspects about protesting I am personally ready for Protest #4. 
As a member of the Oral Majority, I will continue to speak out! 
Suni:)
 The Hall-Carpenter Archives
 
 
If you are aware of a European archive we are missing, please contact me. 
If you could post this to relevant US-based e-lists you think might be
interested, I'd be most grateful. 
Best wishes, Oliver.
 
Oliver Merrington 
Chair, Hall-Carpenter Archives 
BM ARCHIVES 
London WC1N 3XX Never Again
 
We were all heartened to learn, on Friday, of a potential breakthrough in the search for 
a vaccine that would prevent and possibly even treat AIDS. 
Such a vaccine would save tens of thousands of lives in this country and avert a worldwide 
catastrophe of medieval proportions. 
But there are two potential dangers in this development. 
The first is that, as started in 1996 with HAART and continued through the death of 
barebacking activist Stephen Gendin in 2000, there will be an orgy of unsafe anal sex, leading, 
if the vaccine fails, to more untreatable cases of HIV and other STDs. 
The other, and this is particularly true should the vaccine prove successful, is that the domination 
of the culture of anal sex will remain unchallenged, and that gay men will continue to be assailed 
by the notion that anal sex is the truest and most powerful expression of male 2 male sex. 
Should that anal sex culture continue unabated, it will mean that, as happens today, many men 
will never have the chance of finding their true sexual path, but instead will be forced by cultural 
and peer pressures into the confining world of the anal tyranny; that the psychologically disastrous 
and outmoded culture of tops and bottoms will remain damagingly dominant in gay male life; and 
that men into frottage and other nonanal forms of sex will continue to be denigrated and discriminated 
against in their own community. 
And, I believe, somewhere down the line there will be a new epidemic, probably worse than AIDS. 
That's because anal sex is a vector for disease, and today the rapidity of travel spreads disease at superhuman 
speed. At some point, we in the gay male community have to acknowledge that the universe is an unforgiving 
place, and that to expose a vulnerable part of our bodies to every pathogen that may come tripping down the 
garden path is, ultimately, suicidal. 
So I hope the news of the vaccine will be welcomed by the gay male community cautiously and thoughtfully. 
I hope that the community will continue to explore the causes of the epidemic, including the cultural 
domination of anal sex, and take as its pledge these two simple words: 
Never Again. 
Bill Weintraub
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Amnesty International has documented a frightening pattern of violence by
the Zimbabwean Government against its critics in recent years. 
The Belgian authorities should establish whether today's events are a
further sinister twist to an already deeply worrying trend of attacks on
those that criticize the Government of Zimbabwe." 
Amnesty International remains extremely concerned at Zimbabwe President
Robert Mugabe's outspoken attacks on the judiciary, the Zimbabwean
opposition, the white community, the free press and members of the gay and
lesbian community. 
Communications Director Richard BuntingAmnesty International UK
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