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how I learned to snap
by Kirk Read


Book Review by Christopher Todd
Courtesy of The Letter

how i learned to snap, by Kirk Read, Athens, GA: Hill Stress Press, 2001. 230 pages, paperback, $22.95. ISBN 1-58818-039-5.

The latest in a growing body of work about gays and lesbians in the South is a charming memoir of his teenage years by columnist Kirk Read, who's all of 28. how i learned to snap is a full-tilt, swaggering account that's full of energy and elan, a kind of miniature Italian opera set in Virginia's languid Shenandoah Valley.

Read's observations about family, community, and high school in a small Upper South town are dead-on. Occasionally slicing but never cruel, they'll be recognizable to any gay man or lesbian who's ever lived in a similar milieu. It's not easy growing up gay in an oppressive religious culture, but Read, like a clown in a nave, manages to pull it off admirably because he's so self-honest.

What can you say, for example, about a boy who sings Indigo Girls songs to a bunch of elderly church ladies who haven't a clue what they're listening to, and then applaud him? We howl with delight. And what do you make of Read, a Methodist, when he forthrightly walks out of a Baptist youth group after the church demands he be baptized according to their rites? It's hard not to stand up in the middle of your living room and cheer.

Perhaps the most remarkable part of his story is his coming out at such an early age. Forty years ago, had any teenager announced his homosexuality to an entire community-much less his school-he risked being trundled off to an electroshock therapist. That Read was able to come out of coming out with barely a scratch is testimony to the great strides we've made over the past twenty years.

Admittedly, Read seems to have had an easier time of it than a great many Southern gay and lesbian teenagers. That could be, perhaps, because as the youngest child he was pampered. His strong personality-nurtured no doubt by his doting mother--was another factor. He seldom seems to have taken shit for an answer from anyone.

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Read-who's often been published in this newspaper-is certainly an endearing fellow. Peaking mischievously from behind his remarkably mature writing style is an outlook on life that's still very boyish, fresh, and bratty. Sometimes he can be too cute, as if he's trying to gain the affection of his readers with his sweetness. At other times his story bogs down in self-indulgent details that mean little to anyone besides the author. But it's easy to forgive him such brief lapses because his story is so entrancing.

Read's writing is facile, natural, conversational. His zest for life comes through on every page. We don't know what part of the written world he'll travel off to next, but we feel certain in his luggage will be the same kind of infectious enthusiasm that comes through on every page of snap.
Available in the region at Carmichael's, Crazy Ladies Bookstore, Out Loud Books, Out Word Bound, Pink Pyramid, Planet Proud, and other fine stores. Also in the Williams-Nichols Collection at the University of Louisville. Be sure to tell them you saw it in The Letter!

An autographed copy of how I learned to snap is available: www.kirkread.com





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